If your au-some child is 10 or younger, you are in the right place .
Hope won’t fix the meltdowns. Strategy will. Are you ready to be intentional?
You’re educated, experienced, and used to leading the room —
So why do you feel completely lost on your autism journey with your child and at your child’s IEP meeting?
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You're not alone — I’ve been there too.
Let me help you go from quietly overwhelmed to confidently prepared.
1-on-1 Coaching-----> A POWER HOUR!
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How INTENTIONAL are You Supporting Your Au-some Child?
The Story That Started It All:
I’ll never forget the moment a school nurse looked me in the eye and said,
“Your baby is running amuck in this school.”
That moment forced my husband and me into a world of IEP meetings
— with more than 10 specialists at the table —
while we were still learning what our daughter’s autism diagnosis meant for her and for us.
We had degrees. Routines. A strong support system.
And yet, in those meetings, it felt like none of that mattered.
We were expected to contribute…
but we didn’t speak the language.
And because we knew that conflict doesn't lead to progress,
we stayed quiet — when we really wanted to speak up.
EVERYTHING you do must be intentional when comes to supporting your au-some child!!!
How you live day-to-day, how you show-up in meetings, how you start your day, how you end the day, everything...
I created Power Hour Coaching and my book bundle
for parents just like us. Parents ready to intentional!
Parents who are polished, professional, and respected in every room —
except the IEP room.
What You Get in Your One-Hour Coaching Session:
✔ ONE Deep Dive Zoom Call – We’ll assess your parenting approach, celebrate what’s working, and identify what needs to change. I can help you prepare for an upcoming IEP or MDR meeting.
✔ Customized Strategies – Done for you documents and emails. Actionable, practical steps tailored to your child’s unique needs.
✔ Compassionate Support – A judgment-free zone where you can express concerns and get expert guidance.
✔ Valuable Resources – Tools, templates, and techniques to simplify routines, manage behaviors, and reduce stress.
✔ Expert Q&A – Ask your biggest questions and get immediate, personalized answers to help you move forward.
Exclusive 14-Day Coaching Hotline 🆕
Because support shouldn’t end after one call.
For 14 days after your session, you’ll have direct access to me via email for follow-up questions and additional guidance.
What This Means for You:
📌 Get quick answers to implementation challenges.
📌 Receive additional clarity on action steps.
📌 Stay supported beyond the session—because advocacy and parenting don’t stop after one conversation.
🚨 Response times will be outlined to ensure clear boundaries while providing valuable, ongoing support.
You’ll walk away with:
✔️ Clarity on your child’s rights and needs
✔️ Confidence in the language used by schools and specialists
✔️ A calm, clear plan for your next IEP meeting
✔️ Questions you can ask that get results — without creating conflict
✔️ A deeper understanding of how to advocate without stress or shame
Ready to Take the Next Step?
You don’t have to figure this out on your own. Let’s create a game plan together.
This is for you if…You’re used to being the expert — but now you feel like the outsider. You want to advocate for your child without becoming “that parent.” You know your child — you just need help communicating that to the team. You’ve stayed quiet in meetings out of fear of saying the wrong thing. You want support that doesn’t judge you — and helps you stay in your power.
Let's make sure you are ready for the next IEP meeting?
BOOK YOUR POWER HOUR NOW
NICE TO MEET YOU
I'm Tanyika Mayhew Butler
Meet Your Coach/Autism Parent Friend
I help autism parents go from surviving to structured, from emotional chaos to calm clarity.
You’re juggling meltdowns, messy routines, IEP stress, and a million questions Google can’t answer.
You’re educated. High-functioning. You hold it together in public.
But behind closed doors, you’re exhausted — and silently wondering:
Will this ever get easier?
I’ve been there.
As a mom to a now 23-year-old autistic daughter, I’ve lived the unpredictable days and the sleepless nights.
As an educator and school counselor, I’ve sat at the table where decisions get made — and watched parents freeze, unsure what to say or do.
Through my coaching, I help families like yours:
✅ Find your voice when you don’t know what to say in IEP or school meetings
✅ Ask the right questions without feeling confrontational or confused
✅ Walk into the room with clarity and confidence, instead of fear or self-doubt
✅ Stay emotionally grounded when the conversation gets overwhelming
✅ Build calm, consistent routines at home that support your child’s needs and your peace of mind
✅ Reclaim time for yourself without guilt — because you matter too
Why I'm the Right Person to
Guide You & Answer Your Questions:
You've got questions, and I've got the answers. With 27 years in education, including 18 as a school counselor, I've been right where you are. I've navigated this autism emotional rollercoaster as a wife (recently celebrated 26 years) and as a mother of two kids just 14 months apart, now 24 and soon to be 23. Kendall has a diagnosis of Autism, ADHD, IDD (Intellectual Developmental Disability and EBD (Emotional Behavior Disorder). During that time, I've served as president of a school counselor organization, held executive board positions with the Georgia School Counselor Association, and received numerous awards. I have authored three books and turned a hobby of making jewelry into a side business PMJbyTMB on Etsy .
Feeling POWERFUL in an IEP meeting is possible.
How did OUR autism journey START...
Tanyika Mayhew Butler's life took a pivotal turn with a single statement: "I think Kendall has a hearing problem." This observation led to Kendall's autism diagnosis before the age of 2, setting Tanyika on a path of passionate advocacy and empowerment since 2003. As a dedicated wife of 26 years and mother of two, including her 23-year-old daughter Kendall, Tanyika brings nearly 30 years of experience as a school counselor and teacher to her work. Through her books, including A Krusade for Kendall, and her innovative workbook, she channels her expertise and personal journey to support and educate families and educators about autism. Tanyika's unwavering commitment to her mission is inspiring: to ensure a deeper understanding of autism and to make a meaningful impact in the lives of those on the spectrum.
If you’re ready for peace without perfection…
If you want a calm home, clear plan, and compassionate guidance…
Let’s do this together.
Book your Power Hour Coaching Session today.
Because your child needs support — and so do you.
