MEET THE DISRUPTOR

Tanyika Butler
Disruptor of Survival Mode™ | Author | Speaker | Resilience Pivot Coach

Disruptor of Survival Mode™ | Author | Speaker | Resilience Architect

For years, I was the woman everyone called strong.
A leader. A mentor. A mother.
And behind it all exhausted.

I wore my excellence like armor and my smile like a mask.
I led through diagnosis, advocacy, and achievement while quietly losing touch with my own peace.

My breaking point came in 2013: two pills, five days in the hospital, and a truth I could no longer ignore. 
I was performing strength but neglecting stability.

That moment became the turning point that transformed everything.

I realized I had spent years living by systems my mother had quietly modeled long before I ever called them frameworks.
She was my first coach a high school basketball player who taught me what it meant to pivot, pause, and protect my position in life.

After her passing, I discovered that what I thought I’d built from scratch was actually her legacy a five-pillar framework rooted in her life’s playbook. Learn more about Ms. JACKIE'S Playbook
Now, I use those same principles, The Anchor Circle Framework™  to guide women like me: high-achieving professionals who are no longer interested in performing peace but ready to practice it.

From Superwoman to Strategic Woman

I’ve learned that strength without systems leads to self-destruction.
Now, I help accomplished women disrupt survival mode, rebuild their internal rhythm, and anchor stability that lasts without apology or burnout.

Because you can be powerful without pretending, successful without suffocating, and strong without struggle smiles.

Through The Calibration Room™, The Anchor Circle™, and Plot Twist to Powerful™, I help women stop chasing balance and start building stability — one recalibration at a time.

Core Beliefs

  • Control isn’t calm. You can’t spreadsheet your soul.

  • Performance isn’t peace. Strategy must include stillness.

  • Rest isn’t luxury. It’s leadership.

  • Superwoman isn’t sustainable. But Strategic Woman is.

You’re not broken. You’re burdened. Let’s recalibrate.”

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MEET THE DISRUPTOR

Tanyika Butler
Disruptor of Survival Mode™ | Author | Speaker | Resilience Architect

 

For years, I wore strength like a badge of honor.
I led teams. I mentored others. I showed up — polished, poised, and perfectly composed.


But behind every award, every title, and every smile was a woman performing strength while quietly unraveling.

 

I wasn’t broken.
I was burdened.

And that burden nearly cost me everything.

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THE COST OF CARRYING IT WELL

In 2009, I was named Middle School Counselor of the Year —
and diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis in the same season.

By 2013, I was leading initiatives, mentoring teams, and fighting for my autistic daughter’s educational rights — all while privately unraveling.

I was respected. Polished. Driven.
And privately… depleted.

That December, two pills and five days in the hospital became my turning point.
Not because I was weak — but because my body had grown tired of my performance.

By 2014, I had another award — The Radiance Award — celebrating my leadership and light.
But the truth?
I was glowing in public while gasping in private.

I knew how to perform strength.
But I hadn’t yet learned how to stabilize peace.

That moment became the blueprint for what I now teach —
how to build internal systems of calm and clarity that sustain high performance.

It’s what I call J.O.Y. — Just Organize You™.
Because true stability isn’t accidental, it’s architected.

Now, through The Calibration Room™ and The Anchor Circle™,
I guide accomplished women who are tired of managing exhaustion in silence
to move from performing strength to anchoring stability —
so their power no longer costs them their peace.

 

For high-achieving women who are tired of carrying it well.
Pivot before you break, build systems that make your strength sustainable.  “I don’t teach rest. I teach recalibration.
Because "strong" women don’t need rescuing, they need a life rhythm.”

 

 How to Work with Tanyika... 

THE CALIBRATION ROOM™ PHILOSOPHY

Every powerful woman reaches a moment where performing strength stops working.
When titles and accomplishments no longer quiet the noise inside.
When the mask of “I’ve got it all together” starts to suffocate.

That moment doesn’t mean you’ve failed — it means you’re ready to recalibrate.

The Calibration Room™ isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about refining you.
It’s a strategic space for high-achieving women to pause, assess, and fine-tune the internal systems that sustain their excellence — without burning out.

Here, we don’t chase balance.
We build stability through rhythm, awareness, and anchored systems that protect your peace in every season.

Because recalibration is leadership.

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THE ANCHOR CIRCLE™

When the applause fades and the calendar clears, what anchors you?

That’s the question behind The Anchor Circle™ — a six-week, boutique community for high-achieving women who have mastered strength but are now mastering stillness.

It’s where you stop managing exhaustion alone and start living in alignment.
Where high-capacity women come together to design systems that restore their rhythm, elevate their joy, and protect their peace — without apology.

This isn’t a group.
It’s a community of calibration.

Applications for the next cohort are open.
Because your peace deserves a strategy.

[→ Apply to The Anchor Circle™]

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