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No More UGLY Wins™ 

 

You're successful. You're getting things done. But you're exhausted.

What if some of your exhaustion is coming from the way you've learned to succeed?

 

Discover how to recognize the habits behind your wins and identify intentional edits without blowing up the life you've worked so hard to build.

 

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Bring This Conversation to Your Organization Your team may be meeting every goal while carrying responsibilities, expectations, and exhausting habits that never appear on a performance report.   Before you assume burnout is the problem, let's examine what's really behind the exhaustion.

No More UGLY Wins™ empowers readers to:

 

Recognize habits they've accepted as normal while succeeding.

 

Examine what may be contributing to their exhaustion, including medical concerns, personal habits, and workplace demands.

 

Identify intentional edits that can reduce unnecessary exhaustion without sacrificing everything they've worked hard to build.

 

The goal isn't to stop winning. It's to change how we win.

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Why I Wrote No More UGLY Wins™

 

At 35,000 Feet, I Made a Decision.

I was flying home from a national leadership conference when I admitted something to myself.

I no longer wanted something I had spent five years working toward.

I was successful. I was respected. Nothing had fallen apart.

But I realized I didn't have to keep pursuing something simply because I had invested years in it.

I made an intentional edit without walking away from my career or everything I had built.

That experience became part of a much bigger realization: Sometimes the habits that bring us success are also contributing to our exhaustion.

Recognize what's contributing to your exhaustion. Identify what you can edit. Keep succeeding without accepting exhaustion as the price.

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Success Should Not Require Recovery

 

You can be successful and still question what your success is costing you.

No More UGLY Wins™ invites readers to look again at the habits behind their wins, recognize what they've accepted as normal, and discover where intentional edits are possible.

You don't have to stop succeeding. You don't have to start your life over.

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Tanyika Mayhew Butler

About the Author

After nearly three decades in education, Tanyika Mayhew Butler thought she understood success.
She had built a meaningful career, written her first book, A Krusade for Kendall, been recognized for her leadership, and spent the last three years consulting with school districts, organizations, and families to create better outcomes for autistic individuals.
From the outside, it looked like she had achieved exactly what she had worked so hard to build.
Then she discovered something she couldn't ignore.
She realized that many of her greatest accomplishments and the accomplishments of countless leaders, educators, caregivers, and high achievers she served had come through patterns that were quietly becoming too expensive to repeat.
Once she saw it, she couldn't unsee it.
And she couldn't keep it to herself.
That's why she wrote UGLY Wins™.
Today, Tanyika challenges the belief that exhaustion is simply the price of excellence. Through her speaking, writing, and consulting, she helps high-achieving adults 40+ recognize the hidden cost of success and build a life where excellence is not only possible but sustainable.
Because she believes one simple truth:
Success should not require recovery.
Tanyika lives in the Atlanta area with her husband, Richard, and is the proud mother of two adult children. Her daughter Kendall's journey continues to inspire her life's work and remind her daily that some of the most meaningful victories aren't the loudest they're the ones we can sustain.
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Employee well-being doesn't begin and end at work.

No More UGLY Wins™ empowers individuals and employees to recognize habits that may contribute to exhaustion and identify intentional edits without sacrificing everything they've worked hard to build.

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No More UGLY Wins™ 

No More UGLY Wins™ officially released on September 26, 2026, the first anniversary of my mother's passing.

Rather than allowing that date to be remembered only for loss, I've chosen to let it also represent legacy.

This book is dedicated to the woman who taught me that our greatest impact isn't found in what we accumulate, but in what we leave behind.

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